the friendship theory of everything: longform edition
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| 2025-10-20 |
Radical fun
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| 2025-09-30 |
everything’s okay if you’re still having fun
the Fun agenda
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| 2025-09-01 |
passive obsession
meditations on fantasy school and creativity
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| 2025-08-20 |
Sense and Sensibility: on choosing men
historically a life or death matter!!
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| 2025-08-07 |
affinity
how to know if you actually really like something
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| 2025-07-29 |
I have free will?
on gratitude
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| 2025-06-30 |
dialectical damage
love, friction and mercy
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| 2025-06-25 |
first days of summer
"self-portrait at 28"
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| 2025-06-17 |
clothes store memories
HOUSEKEEPING: We’re doing a version of Bookbear Express matchmaking that pairs people based on their three favorite Substacks.
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| 2025-06-09 |
who do you go to for advice?
The idea that I’m the “average of the five people I spend the most time with” feels self-aggrandizing.
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| 2025-05-17 |
seeing that saves
on getting to know things better
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| 2025-05-05 |
always on your side
friendship is magic
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| 2025-04-30 |
grace
discernment without judgment
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| 2025-04-23 |
present tense
Housekeeping: ask me Dear Bear questions here. The matchmaking results will be out in the next couple of days :)
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| 2025-04-11 |
Dear Bear: how do I get over someone I thought was perfect for me? + what do I do if my friend is "too picky"?
+ matchmaking closes in two days
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| 2025-04-06 |
I didn't text you back because I was trying to find you a date
+ matchmaking penpal option for people who live outside SF/NY!
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